Answered but not Asked
July 1, 2015 Leave a comment
There are a lot of pieces of advice which would-be parents get. Some of the advice is good, and some of it is terrible (feel free to ignore any). There are, however, a few areas where I got completely surprised by parenthood, so I thought sharing my example could be a little helpful.
- Work on your upper-body strength. A newborn is something like 8lbs, but they grow and get heavy fast. This is doubly-true with car seats, strollers, etc. You’ll get stronger no matter what; if you start a little early, you can reduce your risk of a tendon problem, muscle tear, etc.
- Baby sleep is different from adult sleep. Daytime naps beget and abet nighttime sleep. That is, “he hasn’t slept all day, so he’ll sleep well tonight” is unlikely to be correct. Some kids sleep well on the go, but some don’t. Each kid is different, and different parents are different.
- If there is work that needs to be done one your house (eg refinishing floors, painting, fixing AC etc), it is a lot easier to do that during a pregnancy than once you have a kid. It’s also easy to put things off, thinking “I have time for that.” That rarely makes for less actual work.
- There is little that makes the horrible IKEA instructions look better than everything else’s instructions. I’m pretty convinced that some of these things are actually IQ tests, and I failed. I think this must be common. I very cleverly and wrongly installed two different car seats.
Enjoy the whirlwind!